Welcome to Dear Mixed Girl®, where we specialize in supporting mixed-race girls and their families through culturally grounded coaching and transformative conversations. Whether you’re a parent seeking guidance, a teen navigating your mixed identity, or an organization striving for inclusivity, you’ve found the right place.
Confidence. Identity. Leadership.
Growing up mixed can be beautiful—and complex. Our coaching for mixed girls provides a safe space to explore identity, increase self-awareness, and grow into powerful, purposeful young leaders.
This program helps girls to:
Embrace their whole selves with confidence
Develop emotional intelligence and resilience
Build leadership skills rooted in authenticity
Navigate the social and cultural challenges of being mixed
🪧 Coaching is available through 1:1 sessions and alongside parental figures.
Are you ready to level up? Schedule a 15-minute Discovery call by contacting Dr. KayLa today.
Coaching for Mixed Girls and Their Parents/Parental Figures
Support the Journey. Strengthen the Bond. Empower the Future.
Being a mixed girl comes with a beautifully complex identity—and parenting her is just as layered. At Dear Mixed Girl, our coaching approach supports both the girl and her caregivers, creating a united path forward filled with understanding, empowerment, and growth.
Through our work together, mixed girls (ages 12–18) develop:
A deep sense of self-love and identity pride
Emotional intelligence and resilience
Leadership skills rooted in authenticity
The confidence to stand tall in every space they occupy
At the same time, parents and parental figures gain:
Insight into their child’s unique lived experience
Tools to nurture trust, safety, and open communication
Skills to foster cultural fluency and belonging at home
Support to shift family dynamics with empathy and intention
Whether you’re the girl discovering who you are, or the adult guiding her, our coaching meets you where you are—and walks with you toward where you want to be.
🪧 Ideal for mixed girls (ages 12–18), parents, grandparents, guardians, and chosen family members.
🔗 Book a Dear Mixed Girl Coaching Session & contact Dr. KayLa directly to begin your journey.
🎤 Speaking & Workshops
Global Voice. Local Change. Real Connection.
Dr. KayLa N. Allen-Young is a sought-after speaker, blending lived experience with public health expertise and spiritual wisdom. She delivers keynotes, workshops, and custom sessions for schools, conferences, nonprofits, and corporations.
Signature Topics Include:
Identity, Self-Awareness & Empowerment for Mixed Youth
Leading for Cultural Proficiency in Schools & Workplaces
Bridging Faith and Psychology in Community Healing
Mental Health & Belonging for Biracial Families
🪧 Book Dr. KayLa to inspire, educate, and empower your audience.
🔗 Inquire About Speaking Availability
*Speaker’s Compensation starts at $2000 (travel and accommodations not included)
💡 Why Choose Dear Mixed Girl?
✅ Grounded in Psychology, Public Health & Coaching Science
✅ Designed with Lived Experience and Cultural Insight
✅ Faith-Inclusive for Families Seeking Spirit-Led Support
✅ Safe, Empowering, and Fully Personalized Services
Dear Mixed Girl = “Beautifully blended — the power of possibility.”